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Dear Fred

FRED, WHY DO WE ALLOW OURSELVES TO LET OTHERS DICTATE TO US HOW WE SHOULD FEEL ABOUT OURSELVES?

Fred's Response

I am fortunate that this is not my problem. Early in life I tried to arrive at an objective evaluation of what I had and throughout life I have depended on this evaluation, no matter what others might say – either complimentary or critical. You cannot fly by other’s instruments. You must have your own.